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Someone told me to "get over it"

Yup. He said, in regard to my pain, "get over it." Let's call this person Fred. Fred has never been all that understanding of my chronic pain issues. Oh, it's not that he can't relate -- he has chronic issues of his own, plenty. He just takes a wildly divergent approach to managing them. Fred's always tried his best to offer sage advice, and I know that he believes he's comforting me when he says certain things. But so often, he misses the mark. I've tried for years to make him understand how it makes me feel, tried to explain my situation to him in a way that would provide a new perspective. I want Fred to get it. I want him to know that I'm no wimp, that I'm not lazy -- that I am doing everything I can do to take care of myself in a healthy, balanced way. All my other pals seem to get it, but not Fred.

Posted: 2/27/2006 in Venting  |  Also posted in: Relationships

In the world of doctors, first dates matter

When I was 24, I met my future husband John and my ideal doctor within a few months of each other. As anyone with chronic illness understands, I consider the latter just as much a feat as the former. Turns out, the world of dating and the world of doctors have a lot more in common than I’d considered. After all, who else has such access to the most intimate physical details of our lives?

Posted: 2/25/2006 in Relationships

When a ChronicBabe is also aCUTE Babe...

Sometimes, a ChronicBabe is also aCUTE Babe. You know, AcuteBabe. As in, experiencing acute symptoms of some sort. As in, your Editrix has had acute back pain for the past week. Here are a few tips for ChronicBabes who are experiencing an ACUTE situation.

Posted: 2/24/2006 in Coping  |  Also posted in: Crafty

LadyBlogger #4: The Daily Headache

There are so many great web sites out there created by, and for, ChronicBabes. But sometimes it can be hard to find them! That's why we feature LadyBloggers -- ChronicBabes who are doing superior writing. It's a way to connect you with some of our favorite resources, and offer a peek at why and how these women are sharing their voice in the community. And maybe we'll spark some creativity in you, too! If you want us to profile your web site, let us know and we'll consider your project. And now, without futher ado, we bring you: TheDailyHeadache.com, by Kerrie Smyres.

Posted: 2/20/2006 in Cool Tools  |  Also posted in: Inspiration

Chronic in the Kitchen: A meal to make your heart sing!

Just because Valentine's Day is over doesn't mean you should stop thinking of ways to show appreciation for that special someone in your life (or to give yourself a special, indulgent treat). Since I love to cook, the first thing that comes to my mind is a simple but luxurious meal, prepared with love, for me and my sweetie. Though we don't eat red meat often, a good steak definitely fits into our diet from time to time, and this preparation is a far cry from the heavy steak dinners you may be used to. In fact, and contrary to what you may have heard, a little lean beef can actually be good for your heart!

Posted: 2/20/2006 in The Kitchen

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